This post has been written for the Five Minute Friday link-up (even though it’s not Friday), where the word prompt of the week is other.
Sometimes it seems my life is consumed by all the other things.
Does this happen to you? At the end of many a day, I realize (and sometimes complain aloud), that the thing I really wanted to get done didn’t happen.
I know I’m not alone. And I know it’s not easy.
But I desire to do more with my days than just all the other things.
Yes, I know that life is busy, and that responsibilities require us to give much of our time to things that may seem mundane, yet we need to find a way to do the things that matter.
Of course there are circumstances and seasons where we have little to no choice. Having a new baby or more than one young child, being the sole provider for your family, nursing a sick loved one…..these are all legitimate times when we may have to really sacrifice for a time, just to survive. (And I hope if you’re in a place like this, you reach out for help and accept it gratefully and with no guilt.)
But in our “normal” lives, we need to create space for thought & relaxation, find time for activities that fulfill us, and do something that gives us life.
So take care of your other responsibilities, but make sure you fit the “big” things in, too. Do the things that really matter and make a difference in your life, and be sure that some of them bring you pleasure and joy.
It may feel selfish to spend time on ourselves, but if we do, we will find we are better equipped to help the others in our life.